When most people think of a honeymoon they think in terms of both partners planning the romantic post-wedding trip together. But not everyone works in this way. If you want to surprise your partner with a sensational surprise honeymoon, here are some tips on how to do just that.

Stay alert for destination ideas

Your partner may well help you without even realizing it, by talking about one or two ideal destinations. Keep your ears open for clues and make a note of them.

Book activities to do while you are away

Don’t just book the honeymoon – arrange some activities as well. This means you can continue to surprise your partner even after you get there! Think about what your partner would love to do and make bookings accordingly.

Agree on a maximum budget together and how to use it!

It’s important to set a budget together so you know how much you have to spend. But once you have that budget keep your travel plans under wraps. Brainstorm lots of different ways in which you could use the money to plan a superb surprise honeymoon.

What sort of honeymoon do you both want?

Think about what your bride to be will actually want on honeymoon – she might be the outgoing type, but maybe on this occasion she will want a few days to relax before having to return to reality.

Let the hotel(s) know you are on honeymoon

Hotels love to play host to honeymoon couples and everyone will be happy for you both and willing to celebrate with you. Letting the hotel know in advance that you are on honeymoon is a great way of getting additional services and surprises; these little touches are just as exciting as the big ones.

If you are savvy you might even be able to get some extras thrown in for free, such as champagne, flowers or chocolates in your room upon arrival.

Think about the logistics

When are you going to let the big surprise out? Are you going to tell your partner where you are going at the celebrations after the wedding, so everyone else will find out at the same time? Or are you going to leave it until you are checking in at the airport? Decide in advance so you know exactly what to say and when.

Remember, planning a wedding is going to be hectic, so sorting out all of the arrangements in advance is essential here; will she pack or will you pack for her? What vaccinations will she need? (you might need to ask the nurse to keep the destination quiet)

Not quite there yet?

Why not wow your girlfriend with a short surprise trip full of flirting, fun, sea & sun and give her a taste of what your relationship might lead to? Even if you are not at the honeymoon/marriage stage of your relationship just yet, most of these tips can be applied to planning a romantic vacation for the woman you are dating.